Reading by Eyes

If the other person looks straight in eyes then he is extremely interested in discussion topic or in you personally. However, it should be noted – too long eye contact shows that your companion is something scared or does not trust you. In this case, the look is nothing but an attempt to control you. If the man gives a woman a long and intent look, it means that he likes her much. This look is a subconscious attempt to hypnotize a woman to make it more accessible and relaxed.

If your mate meets your eyes for a moment and then takes a look aside, it may mean that he is not concerned about your discussion or just wants to finish this boring conversation. If the look is directed upwards, it means that you cause a persistent irritation, and perhaps contempt.

Sight, directed at the upper right corner indicates that your interlocutor is trying to recall some association, for example, a familiar piece of music melody, and whatnot. If he tries to imagine something that is not heard before, the view will certainly go to the left. Look right and down means that a person is actively engaged in internal dialogue or is thinking about how to continue the conversation.

If your partner lowers his eyes, it’s a clear sign of discomfort or embarrassment. In a conversation with a woman, a man who puts eyes shows his timidity and shyness. It does not mean that the woman is not interesting for him.

Look

For example, fully raised head tells about self-confidence, expresses self-consciousness, complete openness and attention to the outside world. Tilting the head back demonstrates a strong desire to work and gain aims. In contrast, bent head indicates low activity, complete openness and even submission. Head, hanging upside down, is a sign of weakness and unavailability to stresses.

“Language of look” is very diverse. Thus, fully open eyes characterize high sensitivity, intellect, and overall liveliness. Wide-open (”bulging”) eyes indicate attachment to the visual environment. » Curtained” eyes are often the sign of inertia, indifference, arrogance, boredom, or fatigue. Narrowed or squinting eyes mean either concentrated attention, sometimes even slyness.

Direct look shows interest, trust, openness, readiness to interact directly. Looking from the side indicates skepticism and disbelief. Looking down (with tilted head) finds a sense of superiority, arrogance, contempt, domination. Deviated look indicates insecure, shy or timid personality.

German anthropologist Carsten Nimitz, studying smile in its dynamics, found that the impression of sincere or feigned smiles arises depending on the speed with which the corners of the mouth are raised. The researcher affirms that a smile accompanied with the expansion of the eyes for too long time without their brief closing tells about threat. In the opposite, briefly closing eyes is a calming element of mimicry.

Gestures

Crossed arms tell about protective reaction, isolation, and self-defense. Hands behind the back indicate lack of willingness to act, as well as shyness and embarrassment. Open palm up is a gesture of explanation, persuasion, and readiness to contact. Hands hidden in pockets tell about concealment of difficulties.

Movement of hands covering the face or part of it indicates the desire to hide something. Open hand stroking something pleasant to the touch (e.g., the other arm) tells about gentle temper, good humor.

Finger inserted into the mouth defines the naivety, the state of absent-mindedness, and confusion. Finger, touching the eyes or ears, is a sign of a certain awkwardness, timidity and desire to escape.

Every gesture of the individual is a certain word in the language. Reading the gestures, we provide feedback, which plays a major role in the interaction process.

Voice

Voice is a characteristic feature, which allows getting more general impression of the Here are some characteristics of the human voice:

• A lively, brisk manner of speaking shows impulsivity, self-confidence
• Calm, slow manner suggests calmness, prudence, soundness
• Visible fluctuations in the speed of speech reveal a lack of balance, uncertainty, excitable
• A powerful voice indicates true power, inherent motives, sometimes even arrogance
• Quiet voice indicates restraint, modesty, tact, or lack of vitality, weakness
• Abrupt changes in the volume demonstrate the emotion and excitement

Learn More about Your Mate during the First 10 Minutes

Learn about: … His\her favorite sport. Runners, swimmers (everyone who likes single sport) prefer to spend time alone. People who like amateur team sports, like to compete in real life too. Those who are not interested in sports, tend to be independent tender and kind. …His\her best friend. A person, who has a friend with the same character, is loyal. But such people are a bit old-fashioned.  If your mate has many friends among colleagues, classmates and relatives, it won’t be a problem for you to build good relationships. Such people are easy- going and prefer to make surprises.

… How he\she prefers to communicate. If your mate prefers to communicate with you via e-mail, he\she is a hard shot. It won’t be easy to win the heart of such person. The person, who prefers to communicate by instant messaging (SMS, ICQ, etc.) will always seek your attention. Fan of telephone communication is an old fashioned. Such people like everything to be in the right order.

… Style of clothing. If he\she likes jeans and t-shirt, so he\she is slow and down-to-earth person.

If he\she prefers designer’s clothes, then prestige is main aspect in his\her life.

… His\her style of driving. If the person wings arms, gesticulating in the direction of other people, he\she is too hot-tempered and even aggressive. If your mate is calm and sober-minded, it’s a good sign.

… How he\she speaks. If he\she speaks hurriedly, at a decent speed, he\she is energetic and spontaneous, but may be too vain. People who speak smoothly and slowly are mundane and thoroughness. But they can’t make surprises.

Changing in breathing. Many emotions are connected with increased muscle activity and increased voice. It explains the large role played by emotions in respiratory movements, performing, as you know, a dual function: 1) improving gas exchange and provision of the necessary work for increased muscle oxygen and 2) the transmission of air through the glottis and achieving the desired vibration of the vocal cords.

Respiratory motion when emotions change their velocity and amplitude during different emotional states. These changes are as follows:

• Pleasure – fast and shallow breathing
• Displeasure – rare and deep breathing
• Excitement – fast and deep breathing
• Stress – rare and shallow breathing

Mimic expressive movement. Person has complex facial muscles that mostly perform the function of facial movements in accordance with the nature of emotional states. Our emotions coordinate movements of the eyes, eyebrows, lips, nose, etc.

Emotions in Breath and Mimic

• a – pleasure
• b – vigilance
• c - bitterness
• d – anger
• e – contempt
• f – gaiety
• g – strong laughter
• h – grief

Learning Physiognomy

1. The form of the face. Owners of the round face, as a rule, are able to adapt to any situation, safely overcome the difficulties – both financial and personal ones. They are very energetic. A square shaped face speaks about the strength and determination of rights, as well as a heightened sense of justice and desire to live “according to the rules”. Such people are natural leaders and good lawyers. Someone who has elongated and thin face should work hard to achieve a success, but still they are good people. Oval faces belong to calm and reasonable people.

2. Forehead. Good forehead is prominent, high and wide one. People who have a narrow, sunken, or mowing forehead can hardly take a high position in society.

3. Ears. If the top of the ears are above the eyebrows it’s a sign of intelligence and ambition. Pressed “radars” mean that you are important figure and people respect you. Full fleshy ears with large lobes promise its owner wealth. Pointed ears say that their owner often comes under instincts.
4. Eyebrows. Thick eyebrows are a sign of courage, frankness and strong sexual constitution. However, their owners have dictatorial habits. People with thin eyebrows are more secretive. Curved upward eyebrows are a sign of friendliness. People with bushy eyebrows are often obsessed by fixed ideas. Knitted brows indicate the restless nature.
5. Eyes. Big eyes are a sign of artistic talent, breadth of mind and inability to manage money. Those who have small eyes are, in contrast, very careful. People with bulging eyes are easy to sexual temptations.

6. Nose. Large straight nose tells about honesty, good humor and optimism. A hooked nose means that its owner doesn’t like quarrels. Small nose belongs to pessimist with a poor health. Big meaty wings and the large tip of the nose promise financial prosperity.

7. Lips. Thin lips tell about purposeful person. His determination and self-control often go hand in hand with extreme rigidity. If the person has full lips, then he is honest, faithful and benevolent. His life is full of positive emotions.

Good luck in face reading!

Each of us has inherent characteristic gestures and movements. The same thing is with laugh. The way your match laughs in different situations corresponds to his/her character. Answering questions you’ll define the character of your mate.

How Do You Laugh?

Is it typically for him/her to touch the lips with the little finger during laughing?
If yes, then it means that he/she likes to be in the spotlight.

Does he/she cover the mouth with his/her hand during laughing?
If yes, the person is not self-confident. He/she prefers to remain in the shadow. Our advice: do not criticize such person.

Does he/she often throw back his/her head during laughing?
If yes, such person has generous nature. Sometimes he/she has unexpected behavior. Such people believe their intuition.

Does your mate wrinkle his/her nose when during laughing?
If yes, he/she can quickly change the opinion. Such people are too emotional but they are good friends.

Is his/her mouth opened and laugh loud?
If yes, then she/he belongs to the temperamental people. Sometimes such people can’t stop at proper time.

Whether he/she holds a chin during laughing?
Such people don’t think a lot. They prefer easy ways of solving problems.

Does he/she squint when she/he laughs?
If yes, then this is an evidence of balance, confidence, and an extraordinary mind. Such people are active and persistent.

Does Your Partner Like Music

Upbeat and simple music

Fans of top 40 pop, country and soundtrack music tend to be more conventional and talkative in comparison with other music fans. They value family ties and discipline. They are pretty cheerful, easy-going and loyal. They like communication and are always ready to help other people. Such people like watching and practicing sports. Also they are fond of Hollywood movies (melodramas and comedies). Psychologists say: “People who like country and pop try to avoid making their lives unnecessarily complex.”

Energetic and Rhythmic music

Hip Hop, rap, funk and electronic music are peculiar to extroverts. Such people have romantic nature and sometimes are too impulsive. These people like going to parties. They have many friends and prefer large companies. Social recognition for them is very important. As a rule they like actions and gangsters movies.

Complex and Reflective Music

People who like jazz or classical music are very clever. They have the high level of intelligence and tend to be creative. Such people are interesting interlocutors. As a rule they are politically liberal and don’t like sports. They prefer calm life reading books and watching good movies. They always have personal opinion according any problem.

Sometimes such people are more likely to commit suicide.

Intense and Rebellious Music

Fans of alternative and heavy metal music like risking. They are active and typically independent. They like fantasy and war movies. Their lives are full of thrilling experience. Such people are curious about the world and rebellious.

Some people think that heavy metal music fans are aggressive. But world researches have shown the opposite: such people are shy and mostly closed.

Let Your Body Do the Talking

Saying something important. When you say something important you keep your hands opened. Your palms are up in front of the body. When you are speaking in public sometimes you move out your finger what means expressing individual point of view.

Openness and honesty. When the people are honest and open they will often hold one or both of their palms out to the other person. Footballers who have just committed a foul often use this gesture to try to convince the referee that they didn’t do it.

NERVOUSNESS. If a person puts his hand to his hand to his mouth, this either indicates that he is hiding something, or that he is nervous. Fidgeting with your hands, for example tapping the table with your fingers also shows nervousness, and so does holding a bag or briefcase very tightly in front of the body.

SUPERIORITY. People who feel superior to you often appear relaxed, with their hands clasped behind their heads. The chin and head is often held high. This gesture is typical of lawyers, accountants, and other professionals who feel they know more than you do. Another gesture of superiority is to put your hands in your pockets with the thumbs protruding.
Attraction. If men are attracted to someone, they sometimes play with one of their ears lobes, when the women often play with the lock of hairs.

He twitches his eyebrows

When you meet someone interesting, you raise the eyebrows. If he is interested in you he replied, like saying “Yes, I like you too!». Usually, such a greeting does not last more than one-fifth of a second. Making such a movement, you visually increase your eyes, making the face brighter and more attractive. To inform him about your feelings you should do it a bit longer.

He opened his mouth for a moment

Yes, no matter how trite it sounds, when you see someone attractive, you split the lips for a moment.

Expanded nostrils

Raised eyebrows, slightly open mouth, expanded nostrils give your face more friendly “open” expression. But all those gestures shouldn’t last for a long time but just a second.

He tries to draw your attention

He may, for example, straightened his tie, or secede from a group of friends, stand a little apart, trying to notice it was him, apart from the rest.

He stroke his tie or gate

We all know that this is not just titivation. In such a way he wants to say “I want to look good in front of you!”